Care for yourself
Getting health care that’s tailored to you is key to caring for yourself at any age.
How do I find a provider that is right for me?
How can I come out to a provider?
What sexual health topics should I discuss with my provider?
How can I start a conversation about PrEP?
Ask your friends: If people you know and trust have a provider and/or a healthcare center or clinic they know and trust, ask them for a recommendation.Once you find a clinic or provider group, try to speak with a few providers on staff, if possible, so you can find a good fit.
Coming out can be tough in any circumstances and at any age, but it’s helpful to be out with your provider so they can provide relevant and helpful care that fits your needs. Providers don’t always ask patients about their sexual identity, so here are some tips to consider sharing this with your provider:
If you ever feel you’re not receiving the care you need in a safe and affirming environment, don’t hesitate to look for a new provider to meet your needs. Find providers near you.
If you’re not feeling well or have concerns about your health, it’s important to let your provider know. For example, if you feel pain or discomfort during sex or if there has been some change in your sexual function (such as desire, erection, orgasm, and ejaculation), bring these concerns to your provider right away. Talking to your provider about what tests, vaccinations, and other resources are right for you is an important way to take care of your sexual health. Be sure to ask about these topics, even if your doxprovider doesn’t.
Your provider can help you navigate these issues depending on your own situation and experience.
PrEP, a medication that’s highly effective at preventing HIV, can be a great addition to your sexual health routine. When taken as prescribed, PrEP reduces the risk of getting HIV from sex by about 99%.
If you’re HIV-negative and interested in PrEP, here are a few conversation starters with your provider:
Another way to start the conversation is to complete the confidential, 5-minute PrEP quiz and then print, copy, or screenshot your responses to share with your provider.
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