Whether you’re in a monogamous relationship or have a variety of partners, there are many ways to show you care. Being open about things like testing, HIV status, and safer sex is one way. Helping your partners get services if needed is another.
Whether you’re in a monogamous relationship or have a variety of partners, there are many ways to show you care. Being open about things like testing, HIV status, and safer sex is one way. Helping your partners get services if needed is another.
Talking about topics like STD testing, HIV status, condom use, or PrEP with new or potential partners can be awkward, but it doesn’t have to feel like an interrogation.
No matter how you communicate—face-to-face, texting, or chatting online—start with info you might already have, such as, “I see by your profile that you’re on PrEP.” If you feel strongly about something, put it out there: “I’m undetectable but I still like to use condoms to avoid STDs.”
Just because you believe in using condoms during anal sex doesn’t mean your partner shares your view. Strike up the conversation about the methods you and your partner use to protect yourselves. Your shared experience will be better if you both feel safe and comfortable.
If you’re in an ongoing relationship, revisit conversations about sexual health—including testing, status, and protection—every few months or as circumstances change.
Looking for more tips? Check out these conversation starters.
If you test positive for HIV or any other type of STD, it’s important that your partners get tested and treated as well. But telling someone that you tested positive isn’t an easy conversation to have. The Partner Services Program (PSP) can help.
PSP is a free and confidential service that helps people diagnosed with STDs, including HIV, get treated for their infection. PSP can also provide tips on how to tell your partners —and can even notify those who might have been exposed and help them get the care they need. The service will never reveal your name, gender, or other personal information to your partners.
Learn more about the Partner Services Program or call (617) 983-6999.
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